It would amaze you how imprecise most people are about what they DO want. Many people are more familiar with what they don’t want. They wax eloquent whilst talking about their undesirables.
Our negativity bias and pseudo humility have us being more precise about what we don’t want.
Femi, what has pseudo humility got to do with desires? I’ll tell you. Many people are bashful because society tends to attack those who are candid about their desires. We ourselves feel a little wary of people who are upfront about their desires and so we try to hide them.
How can you get something you’re not willing to stand up for?
There are reasons why precision is so important.
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