You’re not responsible for anyone. You’re not their God. You owe your family the gift of your mind, of knowledge, more than of money.
Have a life plan.
Divide your income into:
Practical – 30%- clothes, shoes, rent, food.
Aspirational – 40% – incestiments into things that yield money, new business, stock market, etc.
Relational- 20% – giving to others, family, church, NGOs, etc.
Do not be an emotional spender. Emotional spenders always end up poor.
No matter your income, you’ll live in lack without a life plan.
Remember, once you’re broke, takers switch to another giver.